An Insperational Love story———–
Monica married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Monica’s mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook with Rs.1000 deposit amount.
Mother: ‘Monica, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there’s something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it’s about next to the line. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I’ve done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh.When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you’ve had.’
Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.
This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage
- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Monica
- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali
- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Monica got pregnant
- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted
….. and so on…
However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things.They didn’t talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world…. no more love…Kind of typical nowadays, huh?
One day Monica talked to her Mother:
‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can’t imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!’
Mother: ‘Sure, girl, that’s no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can’t stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn’t keep any record of such a poor marriage.’
Monica thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account.
While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left and went home.
When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.
The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Monica. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: ‘This is the day I notice how much I’ve loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you’ve brought me.’
They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.
Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask.I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.
How to propose a girl ?………..
Tips from 7 diffrent Girl.. know how girls want to be proposed so that you can propose them in their expected way
Girl1 Says :
Hmm
You got to do it, when she least expects it, but dont forget it HAS to be romantic!
Every girl, dreams of the day, the guy will go on his knees and ask her to marry him.
Plan it out, you can do it in two ways:
1) Go with her somewhere fun and then get all romantic, maybe a night at the hotel, or at a spa or sth
2) Go out with her to dinner, and do it old school..
But lsn watever you do , do NOT let her get an idea you are gna propose to her, it GOT to be a surprise, and trust me, if its a surprise, it will be amazing no matter how you’ll do it
Hope it works out 
Girls2 Says:
I’m a romantic, but I don’t like ‘cheesy’ proposals – so I’d hate if the ring was hidden in the cake or in a glass of champagne, or if a waiter did that movie thing of bringing a red rose and a ring…well, not *hate*, but I would be too busy laughing at the lameness to respond!
Personally I’d like to be proposed somewhere intimate with personal meaning – the place we had our first date, the house/flat we’re moving into (I have a vision of walking in through the door when we first move in and there’s a romantic dinner set out and he gets right down on one knee – lovely). It’d be nice to be proposed to on my birthday as well – best present in the world! As long as I love him and want to marry him and it is done with some thought (not just him turning to me one day and saying ‘let’s get married!’) then really it doesn’t matter.
Although I do have a cute story about a friend’s proposal – she walked into her house on Valentine’s day and found a rose on the doormat and a trail of rose petals, which she followed through the house and out onto the terrace where her boyfriend was waiting on one knee. Lovely.
Girl3 Says:
i think you should do it on Christmas morning, tie a string to her ring finger, and then from the other end let the ring slide down
or maybe a puppy and put the ring on the collar.
either way i hope you make it romantic and definitely a story that you’ll be able to tell your children and grandchildren. all women want their ways that they were proposed to to be more memorable than any could ever be
Girl4 Says:
in private some where special. my man asked me to marry him on a pier at Lake Michigan in a town Called frankfort. we were the only ones on the Pier that day.. you can do it on christmas even in the morning you can cook her breakfast put one rose with the breakfast after she is done eating you hand he one red rose tell how much you love her and how much you want to spend the rest of your life with her. hand her the ring in a nice wrapped up box then ask her to marry her.
Girl 5 Says:
This is how id like to be proposed to on Christmas day… Somewhere not too special, no huge dinner and good wine, it will give away the surprise.
I would like it under the stars somewhere, on the beach watching the sun set. tell her that you will be exchanging gifts at your special gifts away from family and friends.
If she likes chocolates of perfume (i am a perfume lover) remove the contents and place the ring box inside.
wrap as normal… give her your gift first, she would not expect the proposal.
once she has removed the box, propose…
I think its a sweet way…
Just my idea… hope it helps in some way…
Im a simple girl- dont get me wrong- i like being spoilt, i just would like my proposal to be something more than supper and wine… simple is important to me…
i would never forget that!
Girl6 Says:
take her to the restaurant you had on your first date, then take her to a movie of her choice…… if she chooses a romantic movie….and there s a romantic scene, propose to her there……I always wanted to be proposed at this theme park in our state,,,,theres about roller coasters…. nothing huge like kings Island, but still nice.
Girl7 Says:
My fiancee and I lived 2000km apart from each other when we met. So we used flights each month to see each other. After two years he go a job this side and moved here. The day he arrived, I waited for him at the airport….then a man walked up to me and gave me a red rose…I was like “what?!….then another guy with another single red rose and a lady with another….till all the passengers got of the plane…last but not least my fiancee got off…with a single white rose in his hand…went down on his knee and proposed….
This is our story I hope it’ll ive you inspiration to not only do something special for this girl but also to do something unique!
GOOD LUCK!
A Diffrent Love Letter……..
A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate.
My Dearest …..
Please answer the following questionnaire. For Options
(a)10 marks, (b) 5marks and (c) 3 marks
1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:
(a) of love
(b) you couldn’t control seeing me
(c) really … am I doing it?
2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:
(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile
3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:
(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I’ll like your song
4) When you were showing your child photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:
(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don’t know
5) During trekking, myself and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend’s because:
(a) you enjoyed my disappointment
(b) you won’t feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) you don’t know
6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn’t get into your bus…
(a) you were waiting for me
(b) you were dreaming about me and didn’t notice the bus
(c) that bus was crowded
7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:
(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) you just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) just you felt like introducing me to them
I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:
(a) to fulfill my wish
(b) you like roses
(c) by chance you got a rose
9) On that day, it was my birthday. you too came to temple early at 6:00 AM because:
(a) you want to pray along with me
(b) you want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) you want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual
If you have scored more than 40, then you are loving me. Don’t delay in expressing it. If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it’s getting ready to bloom. If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.
Eagerly awaiting your reply..
love,
Reply letter was also in Q/A format…… ..
Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.
1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.
(a) Yes
(b) No
2) If a girls laughs and looks anyone, is it love?
(a) Yes
(b) No
3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not ?
(a) Yes
(b) No
4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo. You poked your nose inside….. right?
(a) Yes
(b) No
5) I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn’t you understand yet?
(a) Yes
(b) No
6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?
(a) Yes
(b) No
7) Shouldn’t I introduce you to my parents as a friend?
(a) Yes
(b) No
You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana’s flower Is it true ?
(a) Yes
(b) No
9) Oh was that your birthday. That’s why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know?
(a) Yes
(b) No
If you have answered “Yes” to any of the question, then I am not loving you. If you have answered “No”, then you don’t know the meaning of Love.
.
Shortcomings In The Relationship
Whatever our type of partner, it must be borne in mind that it shows us ourselves.
All defects that you look at your partner, those who irritate you so much, are only reflections of your own shortcomings, what you are difficult to detect in yourself, however, have a great capacity for viewing on your partner.
Jesus said: “How do you see the straw in the eye and others do not see the beam in yours?”. Anything that bothers us and everything that we criticize, in one way or another what we stated in our lives as well. Perhaps another way, perhaps in other areas, but express the same of what we complain.
For this reason, before thinking about changing our partner, we should think about changing ourselves..
This is the key. In doing so, automatically activates also transforming our partner.
Thus, motivate change from love, commitment, responsibility and above all, without trial or criticism …….
The Dictionay
CIGARETTE:
A pinch of tobacco
rolled in paper
with fire at one end
and a fool at the other!
MARRIAGE:
It’s an agreement
wherein
a man loses his bachelor degree
and a woman gains her master
DIVORCE:
Future Tense
of Marriage
LECTURE:
An art of transmitting Information
from the notes of the lecturer
to the notes of students
without passing through the minds
of either
CONFERENCE:
The confusion of one man
multiplied by the
number present
COMPROMISE:
The art of dividing
a cake in such a way that
everybody believes
he got the biggest piece
TEARS:
The hydraulic force by which
masculine will power is
defeated by feminine water-power!
DICTIONARY:
A place where divorce comes
before marriage
CONFERENCE ROOM:
A place where everybody talks,
nobody listens
and everybody disagrees later on
ECSTASY:
A feeling when you feel
you are going to feel
a feeling
you have never felt before
CLASSIC:
A book
which people praise,
but never read
SMILE:
A curve
that can set
a lot of things straight!
OFFICE:
A place
where you can relax
after your strenuous
home life
YAWN:
The only time
when some married men
ever get to open
their mouth
ETC:
A sign
to make others believe
that you know
more than
you actually do
COMMITTEE:
Individuals
who can do
nothing individually
and sit to decide
that nothing can be done
together
EXPERIENCE:
The name
men give
to their
Mistakes
ATOM BOMB:
An invention
to bring an end
to all
inventions
PHILOSOPHER:
A fool
who torments himself
during life,
to be spoken of
when dead
DIPLOMAT:
A person
who tells you
to go to hell
in such a way
that you actually look forward
to the trip
OPPORTUNIST:
A person
who starts taking bath
if he
accidentally falls
into a river
OPTIMIST:
A person
who while falling
from EIFFEL TOWER
says in midway
“SEE I AM NOT INJURED YET!”
PESSIMIST:
A person
who says that
O is the last letter
in ZERO,
Instead of the first letter
in OPPORTUNITY
MISER:
A person
who lives poor
so that
he can die RICH!
FATHER:
A banker
provided by
nature
CRIMINAL:
A guy
no different
from the other,
unless he gets caught
BOSS:
Someone
who is early
when you are late
and late
when you are early
POLITICIAN:
One who
shakes your hand
before elections
and your Confidence
Later
DOCTOR:
A person
who kills
your ills
by pills,
and kills you
Love Blooms With Roses……..
The rose has always been valued for its beauty and has a long history of symbolism.
The ancient Greeks and Romans identified the rose with their goddesses of love referred to as Aphrodite and Venus.
In Rome a wild rose would be placed on the door of a room where secret or confidential matters were discussed.
The phrase sub rosa, or “under the rose”, means to keep a secret — derived from this ancient Roman practice.
Early Christians identified the five petals of the rose with the five wounds of Christ. Despite this interpretation, their leaders were hesitant to adopt it because of its association with Roman excesses and pagan ritual.
The Red Rose was eventually adopted as a symbol of the blood of the Christian martyrs. Roses also later came to be associated with the Virgin Mary.
Rose culture came into its own in Europe in the 1800s with the introduction of perpetual blooming roses from China.
There are currently thousands of varieties of roses developed for bloom shape, size, fragrance and even for lack of prickles.
Cute Love Story………
Two butterflies were in love…….. .
One day, they decided to play Hide n Seek…….
During the play…..
Boy Butterfly – “A small game within us”
Girl Butterfly – “OK”
Boy Butterfly – “The one who sits in this flower tomorrow early in
the morning….. that one loves the other one more…..”
Girl Butterfly – “OK”
Next morning, the boy butterfly waits for the flower to open so that
he can sit before the girl butterfly does……
Finally, the flower opened…..
What did he see…..???? ?……..
The girl butterfly had died inside the flower…..
She stayed there all night……so that early in the morning….. .as
soon as she sees him…….she can fly to him and tell him how much she
loved him……..
This is true LOVE….
Life is LOVE…….
A True Story
In the Diwali vacation, my friend and couple of his friends had gone to Delhi .
They rented a taxi for local sight-seeing. The driver was an old Sardar, and boys being boys, Ravi and his pals began cracking Sardarji jokes, just to instigate the old man. But to their surprise, the fellow remained unperturbed.
At the end of the sight-seeing, they paid up the hire-charges. The Sardar returned the change. Moreover, he gave each one of them one rupee extra and said, (in Hindi, of course),
”Son, since morning you have been telling Sardarji jokes. I listened to them all and let me tell you, some of them were in a very bad taste. Still, I don’t mind because I know that you are young blood and are yet to see the world. But I have just one request. Here I am giving you one rupee each. Give it to the first Sardar beggar that you come across in this city.”
Ravi continued,” That one rupee coin is still with me. I couldn’t find a single Sardar begging on the streets of Delhi .”
Friends, we all love sardar jokes. But the fact of matter is that Sikhs are one of the most prosperous and diversified communities in the world.
The secret behind their universal success, according to me, is their willingness to do any job with utmost dedication. A Sardar will run a corporate business,owns a chain of hotels,drive a truck or set up a roadside garage or a dhaba, but he will never beg on the streets….. ..Salute to sikhs
HE DIED FROM A BROKEN HEART
He moved to a new town,
felt like he was lost,
he always wore a frown,
till he seen the angel across,
one day he met her,
it was like a sign,
she was so pretty just,
endless like time,
together they fell,
in deep love real fast,
vowed to love each other,
that they’d always last,
then it got stronger,
deeper than thought,
he’d love her forever,
felt life was to short,
then something went wrong,
and they spent less time,
the boy started to wonder,
is she even still mine,
till one day she called,
and heres what she said,
“id rather be alone,
then with u instead,
from that day on,
inside more he died,
he couldn’t let go,
no matter how hard he tried,
two and a half years have past,
in life he feels he has no part,
twenty-one days later,
he died from a broken heart,
heres to all u lovers,
who don’t picture your selfs apart,
make sure you cherish every moment,
right from the very start.
Secret of a happy married life
Secret of a happy married life by a man
Once X asked Y, “What is the secret behind your happy married life?”
Y said, “You should share responsibilities with due love and respect to each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems.”
X asked, “Can you explain?”
Y said, “In my house, I take decisions on bigger issues where as my wife decides on smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other’s decisions.”
Still not convinced, X asked Y “Give me some examples”
Y said, “Smaller issues like which car we should buy, how much amount to save, when to visit home town, which Sofa, air conditioner, refrigerator to buy, monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not etc are decided by my wife. I just agree to it”
X asked, “Then what is your role?”
Y said, “My decisions are only for very big issues. Like whether America should attack Iraq, whether Britain should lift sanction over Zimbabwe, whether to widen African economy, whether Sachin Tendulkar should retire etc. Do you know one thing, my wife NEVER objects to any of these”.
