The power of Thought
Thoughts have got immense power. However for most of us thoughts are only figments of one’s imagination. Generally people consider thoughts as spare time entertainment, but the only reason for this is that they have never paid attention to the power of thoughts.
In fact, this entire world is a creation of thoughts. Gross material objects of physical world are nothing but the creation of subtle power of thoughts. The scriptures describe this entire Universe as the Creator’s urge to manifest as many. ” Ekoh~m bahusyami”. Even if we don’t go that far, we can see the power of thoughts manifested all around us in the form of this evolved material world. All the material developments, arts, equipments, technological innovations, life-transforming literature are the result of the thoughts originated in the minds of their creators. First the possibility of such a creation arises in their thoughts, then contemplation and investigation on the same thought ultimately manifest as the creation.
Is it easy to find prefect relationship
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.” The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
Tip for the persons who are going to be married
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”
The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
Never try to overpower your life partner
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
Domestic Abuse Lies In The MInd…….
We may have been addressing the issue of domestic violence wrongly.So far, the focus has been on gender inequality .But a major cause and effect of domestic violence is metal disorders, which has largely remained neglected.
In many cases, one or both the partners may be suffering from a metal illness. This, say scientists, may actually lead to perpetuation of domestic violence. According to study of Indian women in programmers on domestic violence, 30 to 90 percent of them had identifiable mental health problems.
“National and international research has shown that in most cases of domestic violence, either of the partners is suffering from a metal disorder,”
The common mental disorders include depression, anxiety, alcoholism, drug dependence and paranoia. These are the ones which can be easily diagnosed and treated. In some cases, somebody may be suffering from a personality disorder, which is difficult to treat.
“Though difficult to treat, this problem should also be diagnosed to find a solution to the issue,”
Male alcoholism and female depression is the most common combination of disorders perpetuate each
Other if remain undiagnosed and untreated.
Commandments of a Marriage
COMMANDMENT 1
Marriages are made in heaven.
But so are thunder and lightning.
COMMANDMENT 2
If you want your wife to listen and pay strict
attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep.
COMMANDMENT 3
Marriage is grand — and divorce is at least 100 grand!
COMMANDMENT 4
Married life is very frustrating.
In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
COMMANDMENT5
When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing:
Either the car is new or the wife is.
COMMANDMENT 6
Marriage is when a man and woman become as one;
The trouble starts when they try to decide which one.
COMMANDMENT 7
Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say.
After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.
COMMANDMENT 8
Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook.
But the law allows only one wife.
COMMANDMENT 9
Marriage and love are purely matter of chemistry.
That is why wife treats husband like toxic waste.
COMMANDMENT 10
A man is incomplete until he is married.
After that, he is finished..
BONUS COMMANDMENT STORY
A long married couple came upon a wishing well.
The husband leaned over, made a wish and threw in a penny.
The wife decided to make a wish too.
But she leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned.
The husband was stunned for a moment but then smiled and said,
‘Hey!…This thing really works!’
Humor | Extra Marital Affairs
The 1st Affair:
A married man was having an affair with his secretary.
One day they went her place and made love all afternoon. Exhausted, they fell asleep and woke up at 8 PM.
The man hurriedly dressed and told his lover to take his shoes outside and rub them in the grass and dirt.
He put on his shoes and drove home.
“Where have you been?” his wife demanded.
“I can’t lie to you,” he replied, “I’m having an affair with my secretary. We had sex all afternoon.”
“You lying bastard!
You’ve been playing golf!”
The 2nd Affair:
A middle-aged couple had two beautiful daughters but always talked about having a son.
They decided to try one last time for the son they always wanted.
The wife got pregnant and delivered a healthy baby boy.
The joyful father rushed to the nursery to see his new son.
He was horrified at the ugliest child he had ever seen.
He told his wife, “There’s no way I can be the father of this baby. Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered! Have you been fooling around behind my back?”
The wife smiled sweetly and replied, “Not this time!”
The 3rd Affair:
A woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door.
“Hurry,” she said, “stand in the corner.”
She rubbed baby oil all over him, then dusted him with talcum powder.
“Don’t move until I tell you,” she said. “Pretend you’re a statue.”
“What’s this?” the husband inquired as he entered the room.
“Oh it’s a statue.” she replied. “The Smith’s bought one and I liked it so much I got one for us, too.”
No more was said, not even when they went to bed.
Around 2 AM the husband got up, went to the kitchen and returned with a sandwich and a beer.
“Here,” he said to the statue, “have this. I stood like that for two days at the Smith’s and nobody offered me a damzed thing.”
The 4th Affair:
A man walked into a cafe, went to the bar and ordered a beer.
“Certainly, Sir, that’ll be one cent.”
“One Cent?” the man thought.
He glanced at the menu and asked, “How much for a nice juicy steak and a bottle of wine?”
“A nickel,” the barman replied.
“A nickel?” exclaimed the man. “Where’s the guy who owns this place?”
The bartender replied, “Upstairs, with my wife.”
The man asked, “What’s he doing upstairs with your wife?”
The bartender replied,
“The same thing I’m doing to his business down here.”
The 5th Affair:
Jake was dying. His wife sat at the bedside.
He looked up and said weakly, “I have something I must confess.”
“There’s no need to,” his wife replied.
“No,” he insisted, “I want to die in peace. I slept with your sister, your best friend, her best friend, and your mother!”
“I know, I know,” she replied. “Now just rest and let the poison work.”
cook to seduce your lady
It is said that the way to the men heart is through his stomach, but Now days a twist have taken place men are now days bid cooking to seduce their lady love
The boom has been fuelled by the popularity of superstar chefs Gordon Ramsay and Jamie Oliver, who have helped make cooking a macho pursuit.
Chef John Meredith, who runs James St Cooking School, in Brisbane’’s Fortitude Valley, said half of the people booking his classes were men.
It’s very much about men wanting to attract the ladies by serving up a special dinner.
The age group which have mainly turned around are from 18 to 59 years of age, even the person who have newly divorced have also turned to it .
“Guys tend to come to the classes in small groups, which makes it less daunting for them, but often they have no need to worry because they turn out to be better cooks than the girls,” he added.
According to UK research, men having the ability to cook are now a key factor in attracting women, along with salary, status, personality and appearance.
The increase in the number of women working full time has also contributed to the rise of the Gastrosexual male.
Better To Seprate Love From Lust
There is a great gap between love and lust. Lust is more of a sexual or greedy feeling, while love is more of a secure and content filled feeling we get from giving and receiving. Lust does not have to be something sexual, it can be a greedy desire for more money and power, etc.
LOVE is kind = considerate, caring, giving, thoughtful, understanding
Lust is envy = jealous, greed, spite, resentment,
LOVE is not proud = humble, submissive, meek, modest
Lust is self-seeking = selfish, rebellious, rude, egotistical, hateful,
LOVE rejoices in the truth = God is love, Love is God = Wisdom, Holy Spirit,
Lust delights in evil = Satan, sin, wicked, iniquitous, immoral, dishonest
How to differ between love and lust
Think without a doubt:
In order to differ between Loves from lust u have to think clearly that what kind of relationship you have with your partner, love is A profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. While I think Lust is an intense sexual desire or appetite.
So be clear of what kind of relationship you are within.
Appraise the base of your relationship:
You have to think and decide from within your heart that what base u has built in your relationship weather it is love base or it is lust base, when you are in love, than u love every -thing of your partner talking with her on phone or spending hour with her while lust is desire towards sex.
Once you have found the love of your life all that left is picking out the right engagement rings. Show her how much you love her with beautiful diamond rings and wedding bands.
How Romantic Are You?
HOW ROMANTIC ARE YOU?
GET A PIECE OF PAPER AND NUMBER IT 1-11. (NO
CHEATING!)
SEE YOUR RESULTS AT THE END OF THE
TEST.
WHEN YOU SEND IT ON PUT YOUR SCORE IN
THE SUBJECT BAR.
1. WHAT SHADE OF HAIR DO YOU HAVE?
a) Dark.
b) Light.
2. OUT ON A DATE WOULD YOU WANT TO:
a) Go to a party.
b) Go out to eat.
3. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE COLOR OUT OF:
a) Baby-Pink.
b) Yellow.
c) black.
d) Turquoise.
4. PICK YOUR FAVORITE HOBBY OUT OF:
a) Surfing.
b) Skate-Boarding.
c ) Skiing.
5. IF YOU COULD PICK A STORE OUT OF THE
FOLLOWING, WHICH WOULD IT BE?
a) Louis Vuitton.
b) coach.
c) against all odds.
6. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE PLACE OUT OF
THE FOLLOWING?
a) Hawaii.
b) London.
c) Florida.
7. IN THE SUMMER WOULD YOU RATHER GO
TO:
a) The Beach.
b) Somewhere Cooler.
8. WHAT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH?
a) January.
b) February.
c) March.
d) April.
e) May.
f) June.
g) July.
h) August.
i) September.
j) October.
k) November.
l) December.
9. WOULD YOU RATHER:
a) Chill at home.
b) Go out with friends.
10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE INSTRUMENT
OUT OF:
a) Guitar.
b) Bass guitar.
c) Drums.
d) The Triangle.
11) NAME A PERSON OF THE
OPPOSITE SEX
==== NOW MAKE A WISH! ====
====== NO CHEATING! ======
**ANSWERS**
1. a. dark= [5points] /
b. light= sweet [2 points]
2. a. go to a party= playful
[2points] /
b. go out to eat= romantic [5 points]
3. a. baby-pink= cute [2] /
b. yellow = loud [3]
c. black = emo [5]
d. turquoise = [5]
4. a. surfing = active [2] /
b. skateboarding = determined [2]
c. skiing = daring [5]
5. a. Louis Vuitton = tasteful [7]
b. coach = laid back [2] /
c. againt all odds = stylish [5]
6. a. Hawaii = you like being around
people [2]
b. London = You are quiet, and like the
cold [2]
c. Florida = You like to party! [5] /
7. a. beach = tan, likes the sun [5] /
b. somewhere cooler = pale and
original [2]
8. a. January = popular [5]
b. February = lovely [2]
c. March = loud [2]
d. April = playful [5]
e. May = happy [5]
f. june = chills a lot [5]
g. July = smooth [2]
h. August = fun [5]
i. September = quiet [2]
j. October = out-going [2]
k. November = pimpin’ it [5]
l. December = warm [2] /
9. a. home = quiet, romantic [5]
b. go out with friends =crazy [5] /
10. a. guitar = eye-catching [5]
b. bass-guitar = mellow [2]
c. Drums = loud [2] /
d. Triangle = crazy [5]
11. This person will fall in love with
you!
SCORES!!!!UP TO 17= LOUSY GET A LIFE
MAN
1 8-20=OKE Y
21-35 = Rather ROMANTIC
36+ = SUPER ROMANTIC… U ROCK !
Story, Touching Heart
While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child’s hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father….
With painful eyes he asked ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’
Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions….. . sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’..
The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the later to have a beautiful & lovely life…..
Things are to be used and people are to be loved,
But the problem in today’s world is that,
People are used and things are loved…..
Ways To Turn Down Unwanted Men
HE : Can I buy you a drink?
SHE : Actually I’d rather have the money.
HE : I’m a photographer. I’ve been looking for a face like yours.
SHE : I’m a plastic surgeon. I’ve been looking for a face like yours.
HE : Hi. Didn’t we go on a date once? Or was it twice?
SHE : Must’ve been once. I never make the same mistake twice.
HE : How did you get to be so beautiful?
SHE : I must’ve been given your share.
HE : Will you go out with me this Saturday?
SHE : Sorry. I’m having a headache this weekend.
HE : Your face must turn a few heads.
SHE : And your face must turn a few stomachs.
HE : Go on, don’t be shy. Ask me out.
SHE : Okay, get out.
HE : I think I could make you very happy.
SHE : Why? Are you leaving?
HE : What would you say if I asked you to marry me?
SHE : Nothing. I can’t talk and laugh at the same time.
HE : Can I have your name?
SHE : Why? Don’t you already have one?
HE : Shall we go see a movie?
SHE : I’ve already seen it.
HE : Where have you been all my life?
SHE : Hiding from you.
HE : Haven’t I seen you some place before?
SHE : Yes. That’s why I don’t go there anymore.
HE : Is this seat empty?
SHE : Yes, and this one will be if you sit down.
HE : So, what do you do for a living?
SHE : I’m a female impersonator.
HE : Hey baby, what’s your sign?
SHE : Do not enter.
HE : Your body is like a temple.
SHE : Sorry, there are no services today.
HE : If I could see you naked, I’d die happy.
SHE : If I saw you naked, I’d probably die laughing.
Dowry or Dahej the social cause
Dowry or Dahej is the payment in cash or/and kind by the bride’s family to the bridegroom’ s family along with the giving away of the bride ( called Kanyadaan) in Indian marriage . Kanyadanam is an important part of Hindu marital rites. Kanya means daughter, and dana means gift.
Dowry originated in upper caste families as the wedding gift the bride from her family. The dowry was later given to help with marriage expenses and became a form of insurance in the case that her in-laws mistreated her. Although the dowry was legally prohibited in 1961, it continues to be highly institutionalized. The groom often demands a dowry consisting of a large sum of money, farm animals, furniture, and electronics.
The practice of dowry abuse is rising in India. The most severe in “bride burning”, the burning of women whose dowries were not considered sufficient by their husband or in-laws. Most of these incidents are reported as accidental burns in the kitchen or are disguised as suicide. It is evident that there exist deep rooted prejudices against women in India. Cultural practices such as the payment of dowry tend to subordinate women in Indian society.
Though prohibited by law in 1961, the extraction of DOWRY from the bride’s family prior to marriage still occurs. When the dowry amount is not considered sufficient or is not forthcoming, the bride is often harassed, abused and made miserable. This abuse can escalate to the point where the husband or his family burn the bride, often by pouring kerosene on her and lighting it, usually killing her. The official records of these incidents are low because they are often reported as accidents or suicides by the family. In Delhi, a woman is burned to death almost every twelve hours . The number of dowry murders is increasing. In 1988, 2,209 women were killed in dowry related incidents and in 1990, 4,835 were killed . It is important to reiterate that these are official records, which are immensely under reported. The lack of official registration of this crime is apparent in Delhi, where ninety percent of cases of women burnt were recorded as accidents, five percent as suicide and only the remaining five percent were shown as murder .
According to Government figures there were a total of 5,377 dowry deaths in 1993, an increase of 12% from 1992. Despite the existence of rigorous laws to prevent dowry-deaths under a 1986 amendment to the Indian Penal Code (IPC), convictions are rare, and judges (usually men) are often uninterested and susceptible to bribery. Recent newspaper reports have focused on the alarming rate of deaths of married women in Hamirpur, Mandi and Bilaspur districts in the state of Himachal Pradesh.
PENALTY FOR DEMANDING DOWRY
If any person demands directly or indirectly, from the parents or other relatives or guardian of a bride or bridegroom, as the case may be, any dowry, he shall be punishable with imprisonment for a term which shall not be less than six months but which may extend to two years and with fine which may extend to ten thousand rupees:
Provided that the Court may, for adequate and special reasons to be mentioned in the judgment, impose a sentence of imprisonment for a term of less than six months.
Tips For Fat Girls
Now days, the number of fat girl girls had increased, it is estimated to be just double. This is due to change in living lifestyle of people. You will find plus sized girls at your office, eating joints, college classrooms and various other places. Over weighed people also have the right to love and be loved in return. Fat girls are coming out of their shell to show the world that they too have what it takes to be members of society. This is because for a long time now, fat girls have constantly been shunned by society. Being fat is mainly considered unattractive and, it is this thought that makes girls who are fat retreat to their shells. However, a lot of organizations have come up to empower the girls and give them power to decide their own destiny.
I would like to discuss some good tips which will help young fat girls to overpower their fatness and help them to find their love one and blossom their love relationship
1. Confidence:
It is pretty exciting to find love and, many girls who are fat actually complain of how hard it is finding genuine love. There are several tips that you can follow if you want to see better results. If you are a fat girl, it is essential to ensure that you have confidence
Confidence does not come from perfection but, it comes from realizing who you are. There are so many slim girls who are constantly insecure and lack confidence. Therefore, confidence is a state of mind that will ensure that you are complete.
2. Happiness:
Even if you are fat that does not mean you are ugly. Some fat girls tend to suffer from a very low self esteem because they think themselves to be very ugly. If you are an over weighed person then do not feel sad or insecure. Just be the way you are, enjoy your life and have fun with your friends. This will surely attract guys towards you.
3. Dress Attractively:
Even if you are fat that does not mean you will wear loose and hanging clothes. Improve your personality by staying clean and dressing up in the right manner. Wear clothes that suit your body type. Do not wear figure hugging clothes just because they are in fashion. Fat girls can also look stunning if the dress up elegantly.
4. Try some different hobbies:
In order to make yourself look better you can engage in some hobbies or activities. Join a singing, dancing or painting club. These activities will improve your personality to a great extend. You can also indulging in exercising, yoga or jogging.
These tips will surely improve your personality and would help you to find your ideal match.
5. Become a member of online dating services
today there are a large number of online dating services operating successfully on the net. There are some online services also that are mainly there to cater to the needs of plus sized individuals only. If you
