The power of Thought
Thoughts have got immense power. However for most of us thoughts are only figments of one’s imagination. Generally people consider thoughts as spare time entertainment, but the only reason for this is that they have never paid attention to the power of thoughts.
In fact, this entire world is a creation of thoughts. Gross material objects of physical world are nothing but the creation of subtle power of thoughts. The scriptures describe this entire Universe as the Creator’s urge to manifest as many. ” Ekoh~m bahusyami”. Even if we don’t go that far, we can see the power of thoughts manifested all around us in the form of this evolved material world. All the material developments, arts, equipments, technological innovations, life-transforming literature are the result of the thoughts originated in the minds of their creators. First the possibility of such a creation arises in their thoughts, then contemplation and investigation on the same thought ultimately manifest as the creation.
Is it easy to find prefect relationship
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested “I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.” The SDU officer said, “Your requirements, please.” “Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don’t go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.” The officer listened carefully and replied, “I understand you need television.”
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
Tip for the persons who are going to be married
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”
The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
Never try to overpower your life partner
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that “It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.”
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
Women’s Touching Place For Excitment While sex
Forget a woman’s cleavage, there are more erogenous spots that you can now explore to get your lady sexcited. Read on to discover her ten most sensuous body parts waiting to be discovered.
Women are sensuous creatures and they love being kissed and caressed. What guys often mistake is that they go straight for the woman’s breasts or other private parts, without concentrating on her other moan zones. So, if you want to get your gal into the mood, stimulate some of her often-neglected body parts.
Touch these places during for*play and sex, or just give her some pleasure after a hard day and she’ll surely reward you with brownie points in bed.
Tresses
All guys like women with gorgeous locks. But what you need to know is that women love being touched on their head. It’s quite a stress reliever. Running your hands sensuously through her tresses is likely to send shivers down her spine. Massage her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be game to your desires.
Nape of her neck
In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was considered extremely attractive by men as it was one of the few zones that were not covered by the elaborate kimono. Today, very few men focus on the nape of the neck, but we suggest you build up the pleasure by gentle touching and kissing your lady love from her hairline down to her shoulders. It will make her reach dizzying heights of pleasure.
Collar bone
A well-defined collarbone is what men find irresistible. So, why not touch and kiss her there. Unbutton her shirt just a little and stimulate her collarbone with your touch. Create circles with your tongue and give her love bites right there, just to remind her of how much you want her.
Small of her back
Most women love it when their guy places his protective hand against the small of her back as it shows that he feels very strongly about her. So, why not incorporate this gesture into your for*play routine, by kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back. It will definitely get her into the mood for more!
Behind her knees
This area is a power house of sensitive nerve endings. You can gently caress the back of her knee under her skirt while the two of you are in an open public space as it is sure to get her excited by the time you reach home.
Palms of her hands
We use our hands to please our partners, but have you ever thought that you could arouse a woman by stimulating the palm of her hand? Run your finger along her palm as that will make her feel relaxed and ready for a sexy rendezvous ahead.
Her earlobes
This is one of the most erogenous moan centers of a woman’s body. Touching, kissing and even gently biting her earlobes will send her into a sexual tizzy. If you are getting extra adventurous, simply nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but don’t put your tongue inside her ear. That’s a major turn off!
Happy feet
There’s nothing more sinfully seductive than a foot massage. It will help her relax, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Get yourself some aromatic massage oil or lotion. Pay extra attention to the pressure points such as her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women love enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so ask your babe what she would have you do before putting them in your mouth.
Soft thighs
Touching a woman’s inner thighs without touching her private parts is the most sensual tease that is sure to get her all charged up. Employ your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, remember to pull back before going all the way.
BASICS OF MOTIVATION
ABC’s of Motivation
A void negative sources, people, places, things and habits.
B elieve in yourself.
C onsider things from every angle.
D on’t give up and don’t give in.
E njoy life today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow
may never come.
F amily and friends are hidden treasures;
enjoy their riches.
G ive more than you planned to.
H ang on to your dreams.
I gnore those who try to discourage you.
J ust do it.
K eep trying no matter how hard it seems,
it will get easier.
L ove yourself first and most.
M ake it happen.
N ever lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal.
O pen your eyes and see things as they really are.
P ractice makes perfect.
Q uitters never win and winners never quit.
R ead, study and learn about
Everything important in your life.
S top procrastinating.
T ake control of your own destiny.
U nderstand yourself in order to better
understand others.
V isualize it.
W ant it more than anything.
X cellerate your efforts.
Y ou are unique of all God’s creations,
nothing can replace YOU.
Z ero in on your target and go for it!
THE MATEMATICS OF LOVE……..
“A kiss is a lovely trick, designed by nature, to stop words when speech becomes superfluous.”
–Ingrid Bergmen
“In real love you want the other person’s good. In romantic love you want the other person.”
–Margaret Anderson
“In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.”
–Janos Arnay
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
–Aristotle
“Each moment of a happy lover’s hour is worth an age of dull and common life.”
–Aphra Beh
“Your words are my food, your breath my wine. You are everything to me.”
–Sarah Bernhardt
“In my wildest dreams, you always play the hero. In my darkest hour of night, you rescue me, you save my life.”
–Bliss and Cerney
“I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach…”
–Elizabeth Barrett Browning
“Take away love, and our earth is a tomb.”
–Robert Browning
“I love you, not only for what you are, But for what I am when I am with you.”
–Roy Croft
“You’re nothing short of my everything.”
–Ralph Block
“Love distills desire upon the eyes, love brings bewitching grace into the heart.”
–Euripides
“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”
–Robert Heinlein
“It’s so easy, To think about Love, To Talk about Love, To wish for Love, But it’s not always easy, To recognize Love, Even when we hold it…. In our hands.”
–Jaka
“Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one.”
–John Keats
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.”
–Helen Keller
“Love is the enchanted dawn of every heart.”
–Alphonse Marie de la Martine
“In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.”
–Mignon McLaughlin
“In love there are two things: bodies and words.”
–Joyce Carol Oates
“Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.”
–Antoine de Saint-Exupery
“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.”
–George Sand
“Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.”
–Alexander Smith
“To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.”
–Karen Sunde
“Love is friendship set on fire.”
–Jeremy Taylor
“If you love me only in my dreams, let me be asleep forever.”
–Unknown
“Kiss me and you will see stars; love me and I will give them to you.”
–Unknown
“Love is a dream that comes alive when we meet.”
–Unknown
“Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essense.”
–Vincent van Gogh
“Harmony is pure love, for love is a concerto.”
–Lope de Vega
“Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith,
and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.”
–Erich Fromm
“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”
–Sam Keen
“The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable.”
–Victor Hugo
“True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.”
–Antoine De Saint-Exupery
“Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time: effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.”
–Germaine De Stael
“The life and love we create is the life and love we live.”
–Leo Buscaglia
“For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.”
–Ivan Panin
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
–Lao Tzu
“The most eloquent silence; that of two mouths meeting in a kiss.”
–Unknown
“Since love grows within you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul.”
–St. Augustine
“Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.”
–Thomas Fuller
“Paradise is always where love dwells.”
–Jean Paul F. Richter
“True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the
heart.”
–Honore de Balzac
“We are all born for love… it is the principle existence and it’s only end.”
–Benjamin Disraeli
“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.”
–Oliver Wendell Holmes
“Love doesn’t make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile.”
–Elizabeth Browning
” When you are in Love you can’t fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams. “
– Dr Suese
“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”
–Herman Hesse
“So dear I love him that with him,
All deaths I could endure.
Without him, live no life.”
– William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet
“Love is like a friendship caught on fire: In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our
hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.”
–Bruce Lee
“How delicious is the winning of a kiss at love’s beginning.”
–Thomas Campbell
“One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life. That word is Love.”
–Sophocles
“Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”
–Mark Twain
“There is no remedy for love but to love more.”
–Henry David Thoreau
“All love is sweet, given or returned.”
–Percy Bysshe Shelley
Difference between Aim and Dreams
Dream is the most tenuous of the synonyms hope, & wish. Hope “may” be well-founded in probability, or completely beyond the
pale of possibility. Wish is less plausible than hope, & dream even less.
Aim is stimulus that makes a person set benchmark and strive hard to achieve the goal.
There is only one difference
between dream and aim
Dream requires Soundless sleep to see
Where as Aim Requires Sleepless
Efforts to Achieve.
So to get success, we should have aim.
To have aim we should have dreams.
Domestic Abuse Lies In The MInd…….
We may have been addressing the issue of domestic violence wrongly.So far, the focus has been on gender inequality .But a major cause and effect of domestic violence is metal disorders, which has largely remained neglected.
In many cases, one or both the partners may be suffering from a metal illness. This, say scientists, may actually lead to perpetuation of domestic violence. According to study of Indian women in programmers on domestic violence, 30 to 90 percent of them had identifiable mental health problems.
“National and international research has shown that in most cases of domestic violence, either of the partners is suffering from a metal disorder,”
The common mental disorders include depression, anxiety, alcoholism, drug dependence and paranoia. These are the ones which can be easily diagnosed and treated. In some cases, somebody may be suffering from a personality disorder, which is difficult to treat.
“Though difficult to treat, this problem should also be diagnosed to find a solution to the issue,”
Male alcoholism and female depression is the most common combination of disorders perpetuate each
Other if remain undiagnosed and untreated.
Commandments of a Marriage
COMMANDMENT 1
Marriages are made in heaven.
But so are thunder and lightning.
COMMANDMENT 2
If you want your wife to listen and pay strict
attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep.
COMMANDMENT 3
Marriage is grand — and divorce is at least 100 grand!
COMMANDMENT 4
Married life is very frustrating.
In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
COMMANDMENT5
When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing:
Either the car is new or the wife is.
COMMANDMENT 6
Marriage is when a man and woman become as one;
The trouble starts when they try to decide which one.
COMMANDMENT 7
Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say.
After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.
COMMANDMENT 8
Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook.
But the law allows only one wife.
COMMANDMENT 9
Marriage and love are purely matter of chemistry.
That is why wife treats husband like toxic waste.
COMMANDMENT 10
A man is incomplete until he is married.
After that, he is finished..
BONUS COMMANDMENT STORY
A long married couple came upon a wishing well.
The husband leaned over, made a wish and threw in a penny.
The wife decided to make a wish too.
But she leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned.
The husband was stunned for a moment but then smiled and said,
‘Hey!…This thing really works!’
Humor | Extra Marital Affairs
The 1st Affair:
A married man was having an affair with his secretary.
One day they went her place and made love all afternoon. Exhausted, they fell asleep and woke up at 8 PM.
The man hurriedly dressed and told his lover to take his shoes outside and rub them in the grass and dirt.
He put on his shoes and drove home.
“Where have you been?” his wife demanded.
“I can’t lie to you,” he replied, “I’m having an affair with my secretary. We had sex all afternoon.”
“You lying bastard!
You’ve been playing golf!”
The 2nd Affair:
A middle-aged couple had two beautiful daughters but always talked about having a son.
They decided to try one last time for the son they always wanted.
The wife got pregnant and delivered a healthy baby boy.
The joyful father rushed to the nursery to see his new son.
He was horrified at the ugliest child he had ever seen.
He told his wife, “There’s no way I can be the father of this baby. Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered! Have you been fooling around behind my back?”
The wife smiled sweetly and replied, “Not this time!”
The 3rd Affair:
A woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door.
“Hurry,” she said, “stand in the corner.”
She rubbed baby oil all over him, then dusted him with talcum powder.
“Don’t move until I tell you,” she said. “Pretend you’re a statue.”
“What’s this?” the husband inquired as he entered the room.
“Oh it’s a statue.” she replied. “The Smith’s bought one and I liked it so much I got one for us, too.”
No more was said, not even when they went to bed.
Around 2 AM the husband got up, went to the kitchen and returned with a sandwich and a beer.
“Here,” he said to the statue, “have this. I stood like that for two days at the Smith’s and nobody offered me a damzed thing.”
The 4th Affair:
A man walked into a cafe, went to the bar and ordered a beer.
“Certainly, Sir, that’ll be one cent.”
“One Cent?” the man thought.
He glanced at the menu and asked, “How much for a nice juicy steak and a bottle of wine?”
“A nickel,” the barman replied.
“A nickel?” exclaimed the man. “Where’s the guy who owns this place?”
The bartender replied, “Upstairs, with my wife.”
The man asked, “What’s he doing upstairs with your wife?”
The bartender replied,
“The same thing I’m doing to his business down here.”
The 5th Affair:
Jake was dying. His wife sat at the bedside.
He looked up and said weakly, “I have something I must confess.”
“There’s no need to,” his wife replied.
“No,” he insisted, “I want to die in peace. I slept with your sister, your best friend, her best friend, and your mother!”
“I know, I know,” she replied. “Now just rest and let the poison work.”
cook to seduce your lady
It is said that the way to the men heart is through his stomach, but Now days a twist have taken place men are now days bid cooking to seduce their lady love
The boom has been fuelled by the popularity of superstar chefs Gordon Ramsay and Jamie Oliver, who have helped make cooking a macho pursuit.
Chef John Meredith, who runs James St Cooking School, in Brisbane”s Fortitude Valley, said half of the people booking his classes were men.
It’s very much about men wanting to attract the ladies by serving up a special dinner.
The age group which have mainly turned around are from 18 to 59 years of age, even the person who have newly divorced have also turned to it .
“Guys tend to come to the classes in small groups, which makes it less daunting for them, but often they have no need to worry because they turn out to be better cooks than the girls,” he added.
According to UK research, men having the ability to cook are now a key factor in attracting women, along with salary, status, personality and appearance.
The increase in the number of women working full time has also contributed to the rise of the Gastrosexual male.
Better To Seprate Love From Lust
There is a great gap between love and lust. Lust is more of a sexual or greedy feeling, while love is more of a secure and content filled feeling we get from giving and receiving. Lust does not have to be something sexual, it can be a greedy desire for more money and power, etc.
LOVE is kind = considerate, caring, giving, thoughtful, understanding
Lust is envy = jealous, greed, spite, resentment,
LOVE is not proud = humble, submissive, meek, modest
Lust is self-seeking = selfish, rebellious, rude, egotistical, hateful,
LOVE rejoices in the truth = God is love, Love is God = Wisdom, Holy Spirit,
Lust delights in evil = Satan, sin, wicked, iniquitous, immoral, dishonest
How to differ between love and lust
Think without a doubt:
In order to differ between Loves from lust u have to think clearly that what kind of relationship you have with your partner, love is A profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. While I think Lust is an intense sexual desire or appetite.
So be clear of what kind of relationship you are within.
Appraise the base of your relationship:
You have to think and decide from within your heart that what base u has built in your relationship weather it is love base or it is lust base, when you are in love, than u love every -thing of your partner talking with her on phone or spending hour with her while lust is desire towards sex.
Once you have found the love of your life all that left is picking out the right engagement rings. Show her how much you love her with beautiful diamond rings and wedding bands.
How Romantic Are You?
HOW ROMANTIC ARE YOU?
GET A PIECE OF PAPER AND NUMBER IT 1-11. (NO
CHEATING!)
SEE YOUR RESULTS AT THE END OF THE
TEST.
WHEN YOU SEND IT ON PUT YOUR SCORE IN
THE SUBJECT BAR.
1. WHAT SHADE OF HAIR DO YOU HAVE?
a) Dark.
b) Light.
2. OUT ON A DATE WOULD YOU WANT TO:
a) Go to a party.
b) Go out to eat.
3. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE COLOR OUT OF:
a) Baby-Pink.
b) Yellow.
c) black.
d) Turquoise.
4. PICK YOUR FAVORITE HOBBY OUT OF:
a) Surfing.
b) Skate-Boarding.
c ) Skiing.
5. IF YOU COULD PICK A STORE OUT OF THE
FOLLOWING, WHICH WOULD IT BE?
a) Louis Vuitton.
b) coach.
c) against all odds.
6. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE PLACE OUT OF
THE FOLLOWING?
a) Hawaii.
b) London.
c) Florida.
7. IN THE SUMMER WOULD YOU RATHER GO
TO:
a) The Beach.
b) Somewhere Cooler.
8. WHAT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH?
a) January.
b) February.
c) March.
d) April.
e) May.
f) June.
g) July.
h) August.
i) September.
j) October.
k) November.
l) December.
9. WOULD YOU RATHER:
a) Chill at home.
b) Go out with friends.
10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE INSTRUMENT
OUT OF:
a) Guitar.
b) Bass guitar.
c) Drums.
d) The Triangle.
11) NAME A PERSON OF THE
OPPOSITE SEX
==== NOW MAKE A WISH! ====
====== NO CHEATING! ======
**ANSWERS**
1. a. dark= [5points] /
b. light= sweet [2 points]
2. a. go to a party= playful
[2points] /
b. go out to eat= romantic [5 points]
3. a. baby-pink= cute [2] /
b. yellow = loud [3]
c. black = emo [5]
d. turquoise = [5]
4. a. surfing = active [2] /
b. skateboarding = determined [2]
c. skiing = daring [5]
5. a. Louis Vuitton = tasteful [7]
b. coach = laid back [2] /
c. againt all odds = stylish [5]
6. a. Hawaii = you like being around
people [2]
b. London = You are quiet, and like the
cold [2]
c. Florida = You like to party! [5] /
7. a. beach = tan, likes the sun [5] /
b. somewhere cooler = pale and
original [2]
8. a. January = popular [5]
b. February = lovely [2]
c. March = loud [2]
d. April = playful [5]
e. May = happy [5]
f. june = chills a lot [5]
g. July = smooth [2]
h. August = fun [5]
i. September = quiet [2]
j. October = out-going [2]
k. November = pimpin’ it [5]
l. December = warm [2] /
9. a. home = quiet, romantic [5]
b. go out with friends =crazy [5] /
10. a. guitar = eye-catching [5]
b. bass-guitar = mellow [2]
c. Drums = loud [2] /
d. Triangle = crazy [5]
11. This person will fall in love with
you!
SCORES!!!!UP TO 17= LOUSY GET A LIFE
MAN
1 8-20=OKE Y
21-35 = Rather ROMANTIC
36+ = SUPER ROMANTIC… U ROCK !
